Weekly Commentary On The Torah Portion by Rabbi Abraham Ben-Haim

Parashat Mishpatim Exodus 21-24 משפטים


"An eye for an eye! A tooth for a tooth!"
This is an amazing statement. Does The Torah means that when ones loses an eye in a dispute, compensation is made by causing the same damage to the culpable? In our age and time, this seems to be totally illogical, since no benefit is derived from it to the person who lost his eye!
 
Of course not!
This is one of the cases that proves the importance of learning The Torah with The Talmud, The Oral Torah.
The Talmud (Baba Kama page 84) teaches that "An eye for an eye etc..." means the value of an eye is to be paid. The eye will be appraised (by The Beth-Din) and compensation will be made monetarily. We are glad that our Torah is always up to date even in contemporary times. But one big problem remains: How do we see that The Torah meant "Money" when no hint to that is clear in the verse "An eye for an eye"? The "GRA" (The Vilna Gaon, Rabbi Eliyahu/ 18th century - famed as the greatest genius in the last 500 years) uncovers the answer from the verse itself in a most fascinating way:
In Hebrew, an eye is "A-Y-I-N" which is also the way we pronounce the letter "AYIN". Now, the verse says: "AYIN TAHAT AYIN" (An eye for an eye). In Hebrew, the word "TAHAT" means "under" or "followed by". If we look at the word "AYIN" as a letter "A-Y-I-N" then the letter that follows is "PEH" (or "FEH") and the letter "YUD" of "AYIN" is followed by the letter "KAF" (or "CHAF"), and the letter "NUN" (of AYIN) is followed by the letter "SAMECH". So the word that results from the word "Ayin" in that order is "K-S-F"that reads the word "KESEF" which means MONEY. We can see now that the word "Money" is hinted in the verse "Ayin Tachat Ayin". Fascinating!

                                     Shabat Shalom!
                            Rabbi Abraham Benhaim

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Parashat Yitro , Exodus 18:1–20:23, יתרו

In this week’s Parasha we read The Ten Commandments.
The first is:

                    “I AM G-d YOUR LORD, WHO BROUGHT YOU OUT OF EGYPT, FROM THE PLACE OF SLAVERY”   (Exodus 20/2)


This does not sound like a commandment. It is a statement! So, where is the commandment?
The Ramba”m in his book “Sefer Hamitzvot” says that this is the commandment to believe in G-d! However, The Ramba”n (Rabbi Moshe Ben Nahman), in his commentary on the book “sefer Hamitzvot” argues and states that belief in G-d is too basic to be considered a commandment.
The second question is: Why is it first to all commandments?

The Truth is that this is the commandment of all commandments. It means that in every other commandment, you must include the first. It is indeed a commandment: that with every Mitzva, you must include The “Emuna” (belief) that Hashem is G-d and that HE
Brought us from Egypt.
For example:   “Honor your Father and Mother” – a most important commandment!
But The Jew does not fulfill it as a natural obligation, which is the case in other nations.
_ I mean, everyone knows that it is only natural to honor one’s parents; truly, do we need a special commandment for it? Our instinct is evident clearly in this matter!
But Am Yisrael were commanded to honor their parents BECAUSE G-d IS OUR LORD WHO BROUGHT US OF EGYPT – not because it is a natural and logical even instinctive obligation.  Otherwise we do not need a Torah for that.
The Talmud in Tractate “Kiddushin” tells us about a famous GOY (gentile), DAMA ben NETINA who was rewarded by The Almighty for observing This Mitzva in an exceptional manner – here is the story:
One day, The Sages of Israel went looking for a missing precious stone needed to complete the twelve stones on The “Choshen” (The breastplate carried by The High-Priest). They were willing to pay any amount for it. They were told that they can find it by Dama Ben Netina, a non-Jew. The Sages prepared a large amount of money and sailed
to the country of Dama.  The man gave them honor and showed them in, willing to make the deal with them. The Rabbis, anxious to purchase the stone and return home, displayed the money, a small fortune. Dama went to get the key of his coffer, but then realized that his father is asleep and the key is under his pillow. Dama returned to The Sages, saying:
“I am sorry, but I cannot awaken my father!” The Rabbis were willing to pay more, but nothing doing. No money on earth could convince Dama to wake his father.
The Rabbis returned empty handed.  The Almighty, pleased that Dama gave up a fortune
rather than causing discomfort to his father, Rewarded him by giving him an opportunity
to make even more money. A RED COW was born to one of his cows, at a time when The Sages of Israel were searching for a Red Cow – an exceptional rarity – and willing to pay any amount of money for it. Thus, Dama became a millionaire. !
That’s the story! But truly,  is it fair that The Talmud is telling us the praises of a Goy, when it can teach us  about some of the great Sages who excelled greatly in the observance of This Mitzva. To mention a few: Rabbi Tarfon is known for his extraordinary observance in honoring his mother. Rabbi Yishmael Ben Elisha too, and many more. We do respect Dama, but come on, do we really need his story to learn how to observe the Mitzva of honoring one’s parents?
The answer  is that Dama Ben Netina, a champion of this Mitzva, is an example of how one can fulfill this Mitzva, without having to receive The Torah; The natural, the instinctive way. But we, members of Am Yisrael, are commanded to honor one’s parents,
on a level that is higher than nature. It has to be observed BECAUSE HASHEM IS COMMANDING US TO DO SO!
If the father of Dama became senile and sick and embarrassing would Dama show the same respect? I don’t know, perhaps not! But, if the reason is because of G-d’s Command, then, there is no need for a reason and, let the condition of the parents be the worst and the most complicated, their honor will always be kept with integrity.
The same logic applies to every commandment.
Let me bring just one more example:  The sixth commandment: “LO TIRTSACH” – Do not commit murder! I was never able to understand why is this commandment stated so prominently amongst The Ten commandments. How many people are capable of killing?
The Jew does not kill easily. It takes a special nature to kill! So, this Law does not talk to me or you. Some people are willing to die rather than kill. So, while I agree that this is a necessary fact of life and it is primordial for any human being to respect life, yet, it does not have to be stated in the Ten Commandments, it can be included among the other 613
Precepts!!!!
It goes without saying that life is sacred. Those Religions who kill and maim in the name of G-d, have no G-d to begin with, no religion that can be respected. Jews do not kill BECAUSE G-d COMMANDED NOT TO COMMIT MURDER, not because it is ugly to do so only, not only because it is cruel and inhumane , but because G-d Forbade us to do so. Thus, even Jews who would never commit murder because it is not compatible with their nature, still, they will be rewarded for not murdering. Think about it.
Since The Redemption from Egypt is instrumental to our “EMUNA” (belief in G-d),as well as the basis for expounding the obligation of being grateful,  therefore The first commandment requires from us to believe in Hashem and to be grateful. Our Sages understand that if one is not grateful, his own belief is doubtful.

                                                  Shabbat Shalom
                                          Rabbi Abraham Benhaim

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Beshalach בשלח Exodus 13:17 - 17:16

In this week's Parasha, we read about the culminating stage in The
Redemption of The people of Israel from Egypt; that is of course
"Kri-at Yam Suf" - The splitting of The sea - and the utter
destruction of Paraoh and his great army.

Moshe Said to The People:
"Do not be afraid! Stand firm
and you will see what Hashem Will do to rescue you today. You might be
seeing The Egyptians
today, but you will never see them again"! G-d Will fight for you, but
you must remain silent."(Exodus 14/13).

"You will never see them again" is regarded by The Sages of Halacha,
not only as a fact in this great phase in the redemption of Israel,
but also as a negative commandment:
- Not to return to Egypt! -
I would like to discuss this issue in a Halachic framework!
Is this commandment pertaining to today? Are we allowed to go and live in Cairo, Egypt, today, or is it forbidden for a Jew to settle there or perhaps even to visit?
We know that throughout the generations, Jews lived there since the destruction of the first Temple. There is a Gemara
in Tractate "Succah" that describes services in a huge Synagogue in Alexandria of Egypt. Obviously, there was a huge Jewish community there. Later on, we know that The Rambam (Rabbi Moshe Ben Maimon) lived in Egypt and served The Sultan Salah-a-Din as his Doctor. (Although we are aware of the fact that he blamed himself for that in
some of his writings). Later on, we know that The great "Radba"z" (Rabbi David Ben Zimra) lived in Egypt and served as The Chief Rabbi of  The Jewish community, 400 years ago. About 60 years ago, Rabbi Ovadia Yosef, the
Sephardic "Posek Hador" and Rishon L'Zion Chief Rabbi of Israel, was invited to live in Egypt as an "Av Bet Din' (despite his young age). So, there was a definitely sizable Jewish Community in Egypt. In fact,
even a Moroccan Jewish Community lived in Cairo for generations. A fact that proves that Egypt was a center of Torah for many generations, not forgetting Rabbi Saadia Gaon in The Geonic Era, who was from Egypt. And so forth.

So, if forbidden, how come Jews still lived there?

This question has been asked before by several "Rishonim" (Sages of the last millenium, up to 500 years ago - such as The Rambam, Rashi, Ramban, Rashba, etc...) and here are some answers:
   

1) The "Ritb'a (Rabbi Yom Tov Ben Avraham) on Talmud
Yoma 38 writes that this prohibition pertains only to the time when
Jews were established in Erets Yisrael before the exil. But now that
Jews are scattered over the world, any country outside The land of
Israel is considered one country. Thus, Egypt is not different and we
are allowed to visit or even live there.
   

 2)According to "Sefer Yere-im" (A rishon too), the prohibition
stands only with Jews who would leave Israel to go and live in Egypt.
But Jews from other countries would be allowed to do so.
   

3) The Radba"z in his commentary on The Rambam, Hilchot
"Melachim" states that The Ramban was "Anus" -
forced to live in Egypt by the Law of The King. Otherwise, he wouldn't.
Of course, we have a problem understanding The Radba'z's opinion:  It
appears that he does recognize the prohibition except under pressure
or coersion. If so, why did he himself live in Egypt. Was he under
great pressure to serve The Egyptian Community then? Perhaps! But it still does not answer the question!

I suggest that The Radbaz regards this prohibition as a "Chumra" - strictness by perfection - but not anymore
a Negative commandment of The Torah. Rather, it would still pertain to Jews "Ba'alei Nefesh Yafa" - Jews, who, by pure personal objection stemming from a good and perfect Soul, would refuse to live in Egypt, since it was the enslaver of our ancestors in Biblical times. Based on that, a Rabbi would be allowed to live there to help his Jewish
brothers maintain their religious needs, or when they are requested by
a king to serve him.
As a result, I assume that choosing to go and live in Spain (when you have the choice to live elsewhere), one should hesitate to do so, since Spain  expelled its Jewish citizen in 1492 and caused the death of tens of thousands of Jews who refused to accept Christianity. We can say the same about Germany after The Holocaust! Anyway, according to Ritb'a (see above), this prohibition is not
relevant anymore.

What about today? Baruch Hashem, Jews are returning to Israel. The establishment of Israel is a fact recognized by most countries of the world. Should we say that now, we are forbidden to go to Egypt, just as The Torah states?
We can answer that as long as the majority of The Jewish people are not in Erets Yisrael, we do not have the same status of The Jew of ancient times when all Jews (or most) lived there. Therefore the prohibition is not standing. (except for
the perfect souls, as explained above).
By the way, we can take in consideration the fact that the Egyptian in the time of The Pharaohs is not the egyptian of today. Arabs are not from ancient Egypt. So, perhaps The Torah refers only to Egypt of ancient times, when the dynasty of The Pharaohs existed. Perhaps.
                         Shabbat Shalom
                   Rabbi Abraham Benhaim

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בא "Bo" Exodus 10:1

In this Parasha we read about the last plagues. Paraoh finally
surrenders and, he himself calls upon Moshe and drives The
people of Israel to leave Egypt with their families and
possessions. The atmosphere is dramatic! The last night in Egypt was an uncanny night: Every Egyptian first-born dies. The Presence of The destroyer is evident. The Jews prepare to leave. Many slaves from other nations use the opportunity and join Israel in their redemption.
They are known as The "Erev rav". A real picture of a tremendous
"Geula" (redemption).

         
    With your permission, let me revert to Shabbat, The
sanctified day of The Jewish people.
Our Sages write in The Talmud that "If Israel will observe (with
perfection) The Sabbath day, even if only twice ( another version:  -
even if just once), The Redemption will immediately follow" (Shabbat118).
My question is: What is the connection between Shabbat and The
Redemption? How does it relate to Redemption?
I will answer it my way:
Shabbat itself is a kind of Redemption. We can say that during the
week, we work and we are consumed by all the physical obligations that we can imagine. Then comes Shabbat and we
"immediately" thrown into a different kind of life: a life that is
imbued with spirituality. The kind that can be felt even in physical
matters, such as food etc... We can see this as a kind of "Geula"
(Redemption). I am sure you will agree to that.
But, we must understand that, even "Geula" has several levels:
to be exact, 4 levels. Let me explain:
On Pessah night, we are requested to drink 4 cups of wine.
Why? Our Sages say that it is in accordance with the 4 expressions of "Redemption" stated in THe Torah:
In last Parasha, Vae-ra, we read:  "Therefore, say to The people of
Israel - I am Hashem. I Will PULL YOU AWAY from your forced labor in Egypt and FREE YOU from their slavery. I Will REDEEM YOU with an outstreched Arm and great feats of power. I Will TAKE YOU to Myself as a Nation and I Will Be to you as a G-d".... (Exodus 6/6-7).  As you can see, 4 expressions of "Redemption" have been used in these verses:
 But why do we need all 4? Isn't the term "Geula" in "Vega-alti" (I
will Redeem you") sufficient?
We understand that the 4 of them are necessary to a "perfect" Geula.
Let me explain further:
The slaves needed to be a)Taken away from their labor, b)to become free, c) to be redeemed, d) to be Taken by G-d as His Nation. If one of them is missing, it wouldn't be a perfect "Geula".  When you are enslaved for 210 years, it is not enough to be free, you need your mind to become free from the effect of the slavery. "Once a slave, always a slave" said one thinker. To a certain degree, we are all slaves. During 6 days, our body and mind are entirely immersed in working and facing the challenges of life. If you are "Shomer Shabbat", you know that on Shabbat you are free from the labor of the 6 days.
                Let us connect now with Shabbat:
1) We make money everyday. It takes a miracle to stop "making money"
and rest on Shabbat. This miracle happens every week. We are
practically PULLED AWAY from our labor. Hence, the first "Redemption"
2) Let us assume that you work in a non-Jewish Firm or Bank. You are a "Shomer Shabbat". Here comes Friday and you have to get out early from work. What gives you the power to ask from your non-Jewish boss the permission to leave earlier?
Many did not even try to ask. But, we know that those who asked, do get out and keep their Shabbat nevertheless. That is the second
miracle of Shabbat; the second Redemption: "I Will FREE YOU".
3) What about your mind? Okey, you do not work on Shabbat. But perhaps you left your job in the middle before Shabbat and now, your mind is occupied with it. Well, a good "Shomer Shabbat" does not think about his unfinished work during Shabbat. In fact, The Torah emphasizes the obligation to regard your work on Shabbat, as if it is totally finished, DONE!
It takes a miracle to do that. If you are serious about Shabbat, this
"miracle" happens. This is the third Redemption "Ve-GA-ALTI" - and I Will REDEEM YOU".
4) Now that all the above three are observed, watch the fourth
"Miracle". Shabbat arrives and the true "Shomer Shabbat" witnesses a tremendous change in Nature. Everything changed: There is more light inside the houses and even in the street. The sky seems to be more beautiful. People's face is more handsome, more noble. The food is more delicious (no question about it! I guarantee). The feeling is different. It is an elevated feeling that only a real "Shomer Shabbat" can feel. And more..... All this is because of an inexplicable phenomenon, called "NESHAMA YETERA"
(The "Extra Soul") that we acquire at the arrival of Shabbat.
(see Talmud "Betsa"page 16). This is the fourth miracle,
This is the fourth Redemption stated -"I Will TAKE YOU to Myself as a Nation" Indeed, on Shabbat, it feels as if G-d is Taking us in His Hands by resting His "Shechina" (The "Divine Presence") upon us.
Do you understand now how Shabbat Relates to "Geula"? IT IS GEULA (Redemption) that we experience every week.
"How happy are we for our lot that is so good."!
Let us keep properly Shabbat and we will be meritorious to experience the above and, ultimately, just the same, merit to be at the final Redemption with the arrival of The Mashiach,
speedily in our days, Amen.
                               Shabbat Shalom!
                      Rabbi Abraham Benhaim

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"Va'era" Exodus 6:3

In this week's Parasha, The Torah tells us that "Aharon married
Elisheva daughter of Aminadav and sister of Nachshon..."
(Chap.6\23).

Question:   Why is it that The Torah goes here to such length and
unnecessary details. Isn't it
                 obvious that since Elisheva is the daughter of
Aminadav, and Nachshon is his son,
it follows that she is his sister?

Answer:      This is in fact what The Talmud (Baba Batra 110) asks.
The answer stated is:
                 "From this we learn that when you want to get
married, (it is advisable) check into
your bride's brothers; because most children take after the brothers
of their mother."
Our Sages revealed to us that the character of your children is
fashioned after the character of their uncle, brother of their mother.
Therefore, it behooves one to be careful before he chooses his bride.
In case her brother has a bad nature etc., .her child to be born, will
in most cases have some of that nature. On the other hand, if the
brother is a man of morals and talents, his sister will give birth to
children having some of those talents and nature.
That is why The Torah mentionned Nachshon, brother of Elisheva; to
teach us that Aharon was aware of the importance of such advice and
married Elisheva only after he was convinced that her brother is a
righteous and great man.
Rabbi Yehuda He-chassid, author of the famous classic "Sefer Hassidim"
(Chap.378) writes that if one goes only after his desires, choosing a wife, while
knowing that her brothers are evil
and do not keep Mitzvot; at the same time, he can choose another who
has good brothers who keep The Torah and The Mitzvot, he will be
judged in Heaven for that. Since he opted for that which is more
pleasant to him and ignored the eventual results of having bad
children, he will
be responsible for that and ultimately pay.
If there is no alternative, The Halacha is not that rigorous. In that
case, let him pray that his children will not be affected and marry.

                                              Shavua Tov!
                                Rabbi Abraham Benhaim




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